Ang hirap talaga maging masaya noh?

In a group of friends, sobrang lungkot ng lovelife nilang lahat. Imagine! How nice. :(

Tall guy and almost-perfect girl. They used to be okay. Sobrang ayos na nga eh. Nawala, bumalik. Biglang... hay. Ayun, mawawala nalang ulit. Para sakin, sayang pinagsamahan nila for more than a year. Sayang yung effort. Sayang lahat. Parang, *poof* it's all gone. It's hard kasi when you don't tell your partner what you're feeling. It's like you're handling it on your own tapos ang clueless niya dahil di niya alam nangyayari sayo. Then along the way, marerealize mo na hindi mo na pala siya mahal? That's so hard. Kasi parang kung may sakit ka, kapag may nararamdaman ka na, tell it right away. Hindi pwedeng hintayin mong lumala yung feeling kung kailan hindi na pwedeng "maagapan." Sana kasi open kayo forever. Laging napaguusapan. Hay. Nasasad pa naman ako na mag-eend na ulit to. :(

Slow guy and sure girl. Ang bagal bagal ni guy. Kung kailan alam na ni girl yung naffeel niya, biglang ganun? Open your "doors" to other guys? Kung ayaw mo, sabihin mo agad. Kung gusto mo talaga, then go for it. Sabihin mo na kasi. Mauunahan ka pa niya sabihin yung naffeel niya eh. Wag kang susunod sa sabihin nila, ng iba. Hindi yun dapat ang maging diskarte mo. Gawin mo kung anong dapat mong gawin, kung anong naffeel mong gawin. Sana alam mo rin gusto mo. Masakit rin kasi yung naghihintay tapos parang feel pa niya pinupush mo siya palayo? Say what you want, what you feel. BE CLEAR.

Newly broken-hearted guy and super friendly girl. Too fast guy and uncomfortable girl. Okay, medyo pareho sila ng situation. Both guys are TOO FAST. Actually, less than a month palang sila magkakakilala tapos sobrang woah. Yung isang guy, sobra sa tawag. Yung isa, sobra sa text. Both girls feel uncomfortable doing this to them. Ang hindi lang kasi maganda with this, hindi nila alam kung paano itturn down. Mahirap dahil kahit anong way magiging tingin sa kanila masama. Which is true. Ito kasi yun eh. Dapat from the start pinakikiramdaman na yun. Lalo na kung hindi ka pa ready sa mga ganitong bagay. New relationship, blahblah. Ang hirap eh. You don't want to close your door but you just want to meet new friends. Ganito lang yun, emphasize that he's your friend aaaaand if you want to turn him down, there's always a nice way to do it. Don't push them away na sobrang ganun. Yun nga, may nice way of doing everything. Haaay. Si newly broken-hearted pa naman sobrang nasaktan dahil sobrang pinaasa lang siya nung unang girl na nagustuhan niya. Haaaay. THIS IS SO HAAAARD.

Another newly broken-hearted guy with depressing story. Wala siyang girl ngayon pero sobrang nakakahurt yung nangyari sa kanya. Sa kanya kasi, all he did was to love her. Ito kasi yung isa sa mga natutunan ko. If you only aim to change his/her personality in entering a relationship, wag mo ng ituloy. Dapat ka lang break-an noh. Relationship is about accepting your partner as a whole--his/her strengths, FLAWS. LAHAT. Hindi yung tatanggapin mo lang yung gusto mo sa kanya. It's not like that. Haaaay.

Ma-chick guy and super-duper-uber smart girl. Sobrang complicated ng story nila pero GUYS SHOULD NEVER TAKE GIRLS FOR GRANTED. Girls are to be loved. Girls should also know that once a guy has cheated on you, forever na siyang cheater. HAHA. Natutunan ko yan sa mga koreanovela. SHOOOOT. Parepareho na kaming naaddict? :)) Anyway, ang sweet pa nga rin nila eh. Parang walang nangyari. Pero hindi ko kasi alam paano matututo 'tong guy na to. Pag nawala siguro lahat ng girls? Hirap rin, gwapo kasi. HAY. MATUTO KA NAMAAAN.

And si ma-girls guy and si newly-healed girl. Sobrang nagustuhan ng girl si guy and sinabi na ni guy dati na "like" niya yung girl pero wala namang nangyari sa "like" niyang sinasabi. She tried making a move dahil sabi ng friend ni guy gusto daw niya ng ganun, wala namang nangyari. Sooooo, ang labo rin. It's hard when girls have to wait and guys have to make the first move. Kaya ang hirap when a girl likes a guy, hindi pwedeng lapitan ng girl yung guy kasi ang daming sinasabi ng tao. LIFE IS SO HARD. Kaya nga, wala nalang ginagawa si girl dahil wala ring nangyayari eh. Naghihintay nalang siya. Ang hirap noh?



In conclusion, ang hirap ng may lovelife. You like someone but he/she doesn't like you back. You like each other but something happens, it's all gone. You like each other, yet nothing happens. You like each other, someone enters, you break. WAAAAH. Ang complicated talaga.

LOVE IS COMPLICATED, SO AS LIFE.

*longest entry ever. :))

Tall guy and almost-perfect girl - Cho and Sara
Slow guy and sure girl - Mark and Mara
Newly broken-hearted guy and super friendly girl - Nigel and Pam
Too fast guy and uncomfortable girl - Cabre and Che
Another newly broken-hearted guy with depressing story - Lau
Ma-chick guy and super-duper-uber smart girl - Ed and Mia
ma-girls guy and si newly-healed girl - Jaime and Ren