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Entries for January, 2009

Angela's 18th
January 4th, 2009 | 09:14 AM

Okaaaay, we're really not expecting that. I mean seriously. Shiet, nahalata. :| Di na ako makakatago from friends. Pero okay lang from HS friends and outside, okay lang yun ehhh. But sa school? Dang. That, I'm not sure. Ewan ko na lang. :|:| Yun ang problem ko pagbalik ng schooool. :<

Goodluck to me.

But still, I'm sorry H, I really liked you.
I don't know if I'll be back.
I'm going through another door first, kay? :)

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First Monday Love
January 5th, 2009 | 07:34 PM

Alam mo bang sobrang muntikan na akong KILIGIN NG MALUPIT?? As in ASDKJAKLDJALDAJSKLDAS OMG! Muntikan na talaga. AS IN SOBRANG KINABAHAN NA LANG AKO DUN! Muntikan na kaming magholding hands! I KNOW RIIIIIIIGHT! :O

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Holding Hands <3
January 7th, 2009 | 05:54 PM

Holding Hands

Holding hands is the act of two people who are usually involved in some sort of personal relationship, usually close friends or people who are dating or married. The act will involve them placing one or both of their hands in, on, or around the hands of each other. Generally, this is done as a show of affection, but can also be done to warm hands, take a pulse, or to play a rousing game of 'thumb wrestling'. This entry deals with hand holding as an act of affection. 

The holding of hands is usually done when couples are walking or sitting next to each other during romantic moments, when politicians are trying to solicit votes, or as a more socially acceptable leash for small children. In many religions, it is used to signify unity and friendliness in the community, and during most marriage ceremonies, the groom will hold the bride's hand when sliding on the wedding band onto one of her fingers (and vice versa). In any event, the holding of hands is an old human custom that shows little sign of going away, much like the sticky candy residue left by the hand of the aforementioned child. 

Styles
Woven Fingers

This technique involves 'weaving' the fingers of the hands together. This is usually done by placing one hand from each partner together with palms touching, with the fingers pointing in the same direction. Then, the fingers are curled down around the hand of the other, alternating between a finger of one partner and the finger of another. 

However, if one partner's fingers are much larger than the other's, it can be very uncomfortable for the person with the smaller fingers if their large-fingered partner slides their fingers all the way down the between-finger gap. (If your partner writhes in pain, or you hear bones and tendons snapping, odds are they aren't enjoying holding hands as much as you would hope.) Instead, relaxing the fingers, and sliding the larger hand 'up' a bit (so that the base of the palm is closer to the base of the fingers) helps keep the large fingers from splitting apart the other person's hand. 

An alternate method is to place the palm of one hand against the back of the partner's hand, then weave the fingers together as mentioned above. 


Wrapped Fingers

This technique is similar to the woven technique above, however, instead of lining up the fingers and weaving them together, the hands are turned about 90° away from alignment. The fingers are then wrapped around the hand of the other, similar to how one would hold a glass of water. This technique can also be done with the palm placed upon the back of the partner's hand. 

This wrapped finger technique is a method of holding hands to avoid the painful problem of large hands described above, as well as the way hands are held during arm-wrestling. It is also useful when the passenger in a car is holding hands with the driver, and the driver needs to retain access to a gear stick, though caution in this case is recommended. =)) I DARE YOOOOU! :)) 

Advanced Techniques
Two-Handed

Two-handed hand holding can either be done mutually, with both hands of each partner involved, or with one person's hands wrapped around a single hand of the other. In the four-handed case, either the right hand of one person grips the other's left (and vice versa), or one person wraps hands around both hands of the other. In any event, two-handed holding is usually done when the two people are standing or sitting opposite each other, and the hands usually assume a position similar to that of some types of prayer. To do this, the hands are generally placed palms together, fingers aligned, but not wrapped or woven. 


Finger/Thumb Movement

While holding hands can be very enjoyable, moving one's fingers a bit can heighten the experience, possibly up to the point of reaching foreplay. One way of doing this is to rub your partner's hand with your finger tips (usually best suited for wrapped-finger hand holding), or by sliding the tip/side of your thumb across their hand (works well with both methods). This gentle rubbing can be done either constantly, or as an occasional signal to your partner to let them know that you haven't forgotten how keenly you're enjoying the hand-holding experience. It's also a good way to help the circulation of blood during marathon hand-holding sessions. 

Hand Squeezing

Somewhat similar to the finger rubbing described above, hand squeezing is another way of making your partner aware that you are indeed holding their hand, and that, more likely than not, you're enjoying it. It's important that when doing a hand squeeze, it's a gentle hand squeeze. You are not trying to crush your partner's hand (that is, unless you're in a competitive setting, such as arm/thumb wrestling). Excessive squeezing pressure can be especially painful if the fingers are woven together. The squeeze should be gentle and slow, and be done every once in a while to spice things up, though it can also be used as a form of silent communication if done hidden from the view of others. 

Additional Notes

Hand Sweat

While not a terribly enticing topic, it's a common occurrence, especially during extended hand-holding sessions, that one or both partners' hands will begin to sweat. In this situation, either use a towel to dry your hands off and resume the holding, or else use a single-hand method and switch between using one hand then the other. 

Initiating a Hand-Holding Session

So, how do you know when to hold hands with someone? The most socially acceptable signal to give and receive is to simply 'offer' your hand by holding it out, usually with the four fingers pointed more or less at the other person, and the palm facing up. 

For the less discreet, it's possible to simply take the other person's hand into your own, and hope for the best. However, this may scare off the holdee, causing them to withdraw their hand. 

For the timid, simply making your hand accessible can be a good way to show interest in a hand-holding session. This can be done when walking next to the person of interest, and 'accidently' bumping their hand when your arms swing by each other. When sitting, simply placing your hand near or against their hand sends the message 'I'm interested if you are'. In either case, with luck, the other person will take your hand into theirs.

*Source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A593264,
               http://www.wellnessbeyond.com/images/HoldingHands.jpg


--- :) :">

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PART 1: WRITTEN BY A GUY
January 11th, 2009 | 08:58 AM

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait til' the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you.
-- OOPS. :S Guilty! :))


The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take advantage of the mood I'm in.

Let us pay for you! Don’t "feel bad" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you." 
-- Okay, next time! :D


Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's, or my shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. 

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. 

Don't get angry easily. 

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
-- I don't. :P 


"Don't talk about how hott Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us". It's boring, and we don't care. You have friends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"? I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of, on the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn't like it ether.
-- Boy, you're so labo! :)) 

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry ASS, he's a disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect
Someone who will honor your moral.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you"..and actually mean it.


Give the nice guys a chance. -- Hmmmmmm. 
Guys repost this if you agree
Girls repost this if you think it's cute

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple oftimes.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.
-- =))

*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it.
 
*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

By 12 am tonight your one true love will realize how much they want you.

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PART 2: I AM SUCH A GIRL!
January 11th, 2009 | 09:02 AM

1. Girls hate it when guys say perverted things. 

2. Girls like to be told that they're beautiful, rather than hot, pretty, cute, or sexy. It just gives more meaning.
-- TRUE TRUE! :> :D

3. Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it.
-- OMG YES YES! :D 

4. Girls talk about EVERYTHING with their girlfriends. So that means, you're possibly 90% of their conversation. And believe me, trash talking takes up most of it, unless you're a Greek god, which you're not. 
-- OMG. YOU KNOW GIRL TALKS? :)) 

5. When girls are online, they want the guy to instant message them first, and they literally burn up inside when they're not messaged. Of course, when they are messaged, they play it all cool and go "oh, hey" as if they just discovered your message.
-- Uhhh,  I'm thinking of one person for this lang ehhh. :)) 

6. Girls have a thing for guys who dress GQ. 

7. Girls love it when guys are over 6 feet.
-- I really don't have a thing for guys who are sooo tall. Optional lang sakin yun, but it's added pogi points. :)) :P 

8. Girls find it awfully attractive when guys wear just a white t-shirt and jeans and yet they happen to look awesome in it.

9. Remember. Sense of humor. GIRLS LOVE GUYS WHO CAN MAKE THEM LAUGH.

10. Girls hate guys with bad hygiene. So put on that deodorant and clip those nails!
-- YES. PUHLEAAAASE. 

11. Girls love guys who know how to dance.
-- WUHOOOO! YEHEEEES. TAPOS DI PA NAHIHIYAAAAA :)) 

12. Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist.

13. Girls go crazy when a guy smells good.
-- OHMYGOOOOOD. YES, SO TRUUUE! :O 

14. Girls hate cocky guys.

15. Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means they're attracted to you, but are afraid that they'll be showing too much.
-- HAHAHAHAHAHA :)) 

16. A kiss on the hand with the right timing can be a REAL TURN-ON.

17. Girls have a thing for guys who sport blazers with a destroyed tee underneath.

18. Girls have a thing for guys who have messy sex hair.

19. Some girls can think about their crushes for 18+ hours straight. No exaggeration.
-- REAL. NO JOKE. 

20. When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever.
-- IYAK NA AKOOOOO! :((

21. The smallest gestures, the smallest stares, and the smallest statements could make a girl's year. No joke.
-- KMTTNL! :)))) 

22. Girls get embarassed easily, even if guys don't know what the hell just happened.
-- SOBRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA jkasdhajkdahsdjsdk

23. Girls daydream about their crushes. Like getting married, going on dates, kissing, etc. They just don't show it.

24. Girls HATE players.
-- TO THE HIGHEST LEVEEEEEL!

25. Guys who can sing are a major turn on.

26. Guitarists are sexy.

27. When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. Don't give her advice unless she asks for it.

28. When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be alright.

29. Girls love it when guys say their name.
-- I MEAN LIKE, YUUUUH! AS IN MY GOOOOOLLYYYY MY UBER WEAKNEEEESS. 

30. Girls don't like short tempered guys.

31. Sometimes girls just wish that guys would notice when they get a new haircut or if they're wearing eyeliner.

32. When a girl calls you her loser or her dork, it usually means she's attracted to you.
-- BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA =)) 

33. Girls find it a lot more romantic if you just fall asleep with them holding them with your arms rather than having a night of hot kinky sex.

34. Girls will never say I love you unless you say it first. But that doesn't mean she doesn't want to scream it from the top of her lungs.
-- HMMMMM. YEEEES? =)) 

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